"I do not want to put a downer on things, but I really don't want to pay an even share of the bill and subsidize drinks for everyone else," the guest wrote on Reddit A bachelorette party guest is ...

drinks, transportation, and a new outfit can still adds up. As a result, whether you're the bride or an invitee to such a getaway, you may be left wondering: Who pays for the bachelorette party?