The 'Gilmore Girls' alum reflected on her life trajectory on an episode of 'Call Her Daddy' Lauren Graham didn't know if she was going to get married and have kids when she thought about what her ...

I married my college sweetheart, and we divorced two years later. I was left wary of marriage and said I'd only get married if I had kids. Then, I met Craig. We knew we wanted to be together, and ...

They felt there was more of a deadline on having kids than on getting married. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Simon Banks. It has been edited for length and clarity.

"It's that no matter what, he shows up; for himself, me, and the kids… I'm choosing ... has found real-life happiness. Alana de la Garza married her longtime love, Michael Roberts, in 2008.