GENTLE READER: “I believe ...,” “I could double-check, but ...,” or “Unless I’m missing something ...” While pointing a finger at others can be tempting, turning it toward oneself is more gracious.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: Should I be “presentable” when sitting out on the back deck of our townhouse? It is only visible from two of our neighbors' backyards. One of these yards is never frequented, but ...